Do not respect themselves and therefore are looking for in the outside the respect and dignity, but their s attempts always fail. They often feel helpless, why seeking a relationship of which depend on. Bruce flatt can provide more clarity in the matter. What not they reach to understand is that nobody can give them respect, love, or attention, or appreciation, if them, don't start by give it to themselves. Emotional episodes of people who establish these relationships go from depression, vacuum, aggression and blackmail. In general these people dependent relationships with people requiring to be admired, selfish and a poor understanding what the other is going through. Of course the equilibrio-desequilibrio come into play, dependents occupy a submissive position and the chosen privilege.
I.e., we climb them to the pedestal, and then we depend on them, to make us adopt and we want to, and Furthermore, have us gratitude for everything that we have done for them some of the factors that come into play in these relationships are fear of abandonment, guilt for not giving the width for the other, the inability to express anger and wrath. When these relationships are generally complicated lives an intense pain, isolation, fear, frustration, feeling of being incapable of having a life of its own. Emotional dependency prevents us from building relationships healthy and balanced. All depend on interdependemos of others, but one thing is interact with someone in balance and quite another, give the keys of my person a person insensitive, little comprehensive and requires a great deal of admiration. Crossing the road from dependence to interdependence is not an easy road, it is necessary to rethink us, returning to play our pain, shortcomings and finally take responsibility for ourselves, our self-esteem, our give us what before cediamos to others, is tears, rage, but also, it is the possibility of reunion with myself.
When giving to another means olvidarme de Mi, is perhaps the time to flip look at ourselves from a comprehensive way, the blame and judgement do not help in any sense already is enough with being dependent thanks for reading, my mission is the quality of emotional life. How to recover trust in love, it is very likely that you're looking for a orientation, and here we can provide it, thank you. Subscribe to our newsletter and get free of charge: the ten commandments of the life partner.